It's funny that you talked about this - at my monday counselling appointment I talked about my cousin (who died four years ago this July) and how I missed telling her stuff so badly, and how that was really intense as I'm moving toward reloacting to NYC. So I think I can relate to what you're saying, even though obviously things like this are never the same from person to person.

Regardless, I'm so chuffed that this is finally moving forward for you guys. You guys have such a heart for that people, I'm sure it will work out.